Category: Education
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Guy Stephens
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Children are Humans First
I was sitting on the floor with some preschoolers, playing cars. It was time to clean up. “I don’t want to clean up,” one cried. I had two choices. I could take the typical approach, double down, and make sure he knew the expectation (a ridiculous concept — he clearly knew it, enough to be…
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Guy Stephens
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What PBIS Got Wrong About My Echolalia
Internalized echolalia is one of those things people rarely talk about because they rarely know it exists. For me, it’s not some quirky feature of being autistic. It’s my brain’s operating system. It’s the language I speak in silence. While the world pushes me to say things out loud and to follow the scripts they…
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More Restraint and Seclusion Will Not Make Oregon Schools Safer
Some of you may already know my story. I was the lead instructor for my district’s off-site intensive behavior program. I worked relentlessly to prove that even the most impacted students could be safely supported without resorting to restraint or seclusion. However, my goal to eliminate these practices was met with significant resistance. The belief…
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The Loss of Civil Rights Protections for Our Most Vulnerable Students
Recent changes at the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights (OCR) and the Department of Justice’s Civil Rights Division are placing the nation’s most vulnerable students—children with disabilities and Black and Brown children—at unprecedented risk. Under the guise of “common sense” reforms and a campaign against so-called “radical equity ideology,” critical federal protections…
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Guy Stephens
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Bullied by Peers and Bullied by PBIS
As an autistic person, school was never a place I felt truly safe, included, or supported. Recently I came across a social media post based on the Autistic Not Weird 2022 Autism Survey. Seeing statistics like these—where almost 70% of autistic students reported having a negative school experience—unfortunately doesn’t surprise me at all. I was…
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Action Alert: Protect Illinois Students
In recent years, investigative reporting by the Chicago Tribune and ProPublica uncovered widespread abuse of physical restraint and seclusion (often referred to as “time out”) in Illinois schools. These practices disproportionately affect young children, students of color, and students with disabilities, including those with autism, intellectual disabilities, and emotional disabilities. In response to these findings,…
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Honoring Joshie: A Call for Change in Special Education
Today, I stand before you to share the story of a remarkable child, a boy whose light shone brightly in a world that too often failed to see how innocent and loving he was. His name was Joshua Andrew Sikes—Joshie—a boy who loved Halloween, pumpkins, and the simple joy of human connection. He was a…
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Guy Stephens
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Colorado Lawmaker Takes a Stand: Proposed Legislation to Ban Student Seclusion
In a significant move to protect students’ rights and well-being, Colorado lawmaker Reprentative Regina English has introduced House Bill 25-1178, aimed at banning the use of seclusion in schools across the state. If this crucial legislation were passed, Colorado would join a growing list of states that prohibit this controversial practice.
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Guy Stephens
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Have You Heard of the Tendril Theory?
Have you heard of the Tendril Theory? I came across it online a few years ago, and understanding it has helped me to support my neurodivergent sons. The graphic I have seen shows a Medusa-like cartoon character. The person is engrossed in an activity with multiple swirling lines connecting from their head to the activity.
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Guy Stephens
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Funding the Fight: AASR’s Urgent Need for Your Support
In the United States, thousands of children—particularly those with disabilities, Black and brown children, and boys—are subjected to harmful disciplinary practices in schools. Restraint, seclusion, suspension, expulsion, and corporal punishment are not only ineffective but also cause severe trauma, injury, and, in some cases, even death. The Alliance Against Seclusion and Restraint (AASR) is working…
